Sunday, August 22, 2010

Out of the mouths of babes

A long time ago I listened to a shocked mom relate a conversation she had with her daughter who had been molested by her stepfather:

Child: do you think you will ever marry again?
Mom: I don't know. Right now I distrust men. Don't you?
Child: No. I just don't trust him.
(Him, the stepfather.)

What a wise seven year old. She wasn't angry or distrustful of all men. Just the man who had hurt her. Why can't we all be like that child.  

It was not all Muslims who attacked the World Trade Center. 

Of the people who died, how many different cities, states, countries were they from? How many different faiths were represented in the deaths? What about the people who pitched in to help? Did anyone stop to ask helpers about their religion or where they were born or their politics; or care to look at skin color or dress? No. I don't think so. So why are some people doing it now? Why are people blaming all people of a faith, a country, instead of just the terrorists and those behind them? 

Are we, as a world, regressing to the 11th century? 

It saddens me when we as individuals, a country, are attaching blame all the people of a faith, a country, instead of a small group hate mongers. 

When will we be as wise as a seven year old child? 

Suffrage pageant - L.I. (LOC)

I wonder if this was from the earlier pageant?

Suffrage Pageant - flower girls L.I., N.Y. (LOC)

Am I the only one who wonders what else was seen in the pageant?

Saturday, August 21, 2010

What is a "Sikh"

And why do I care?  1) A large part of my DH's life was spent in India. 2) Via marriage, I now have a Sikh relative. 3) I am curious (nosey)! 4) Knowledge can defeat fear!

The Nishan Sahib, flag of the Sikhs



From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia:

A Sikh (English pronunciation: /ˈsiːk/ or /ˈsɪk/) is a follower of Sikhism


Sikhism (Sikhi in Punjabi) primarily originated in 15th century Punjab region of India and now constitutes one of the major religions with adherents throughout the world. 


The term "Sikh" has its origin in the Sanskrit term śiṣya, meaning "disciple, student" or śikṣa, meaning "instruction". The sikh is a disciple of the guru.


According to Article I of the "Rehat Maryada" (the Sikh code of conduct and conventions), a Sikh is defined as "any human being who faithfully believes in One Immortal Being; ten Gurus; the teachings of the ten Gurus and the baptism bequeathed by the tenth Guru; and who does not owe allegiance to any other religion". 


Sikhs believe in the Equality of Mankind, the concept of the Universal Brotherhood of Man and One Supreme God (Ik Onkar).


The greater Punjab region is the historic homeland of Sikhism. The Sikhs refer to themselves as the Sikh Quam or Nation.


Philosophy


The basis of the religion is on the union of the soul with god. The thought process and actions on the world plane are to be so that veil of the five evils (lust, anger, greed, attachment and ego) are dispelled and the soul can be united with the creator. The cycle of reincarnation is broken by this union.


The basis of Sikh lifestyle need is:  meditate on the holy name (Waheguru), work diligently and honestly, and share one's fruits. The guiding principles of Sikh faith are Truth, Equality, Freedom, Justice, and Karma.


Non-Sikhs can partake fully in Sikh prayer meetings and social functions. The Sikh daily prayers include the well being of all of mankind.


Sikhism can be considered as one of the truly universal religions. 


The opening hymn of the holy Guru Granth Sahib expounds the nature and attributes of god:

There is one supreme eternal reality; 
the truth; 
immanent in all things; 
creator of all things; 
immanent in creation. 
Without fear and without hatred; 
not subject to time; 
beyond birth and death; 
self-revealing. 
Known by the Guru’s grace.


Sikhs are required to not renounce the world and aspire to live a modest life. Seva (service) is an integral part of Sikh worship, very easily observed in the Gurdwara


Visitors of any religious or socio-economic background are welcomed. Langar (food for all) is always served. It is another way to break the caste system, serving people of all origins with same food, sitting together at same level on floor.


Protecting the religious and political rights of all people and prevention of discrimination is an integral part of the of Sikh faith. The martyrdom of Shri Guru Teg Bahadur Ji 9th Guru to protect Hindus from religious persecution, in Delhi, on 11 November 1675 AD, is another example of upholding minority religious freedom.

Lovely!  Sounds parallel to the teachings of Jesus (as I was taught them). 


Oh, I did some condensing of what was in Wikipedia for brevity. If you want to know the whole, check it out.

Rose Sanderson (LOC)

Rose Sanderson

"Women's suffragists demonstrate in February 1913. The triangular pennants read "VOTES FOR WOMEN". The negative is labeled "ROSE SANDERSON", the woman holding the trumpet. An adjacent photograph in the series (LC-DIG-ggbain-12482) contains a flyer labeled "COME AND WATCH SUFFRAGE SPREAD" that identifies the event as one sponsored by the National Suffrage Association."

Thanks Wikipedia for the words and Library of Congress for the picture!

Friday, August 20, 2010

Why I thank the Library of Congress

O, and Flickr!

Because through them, I can celebrate this celebratory month with you via pictures! (NO, I am not talking about my birth or my marriage!) I can celebrate women from our past who gave us a reason to celebrate!

Expect more to follow through the month!

Suffrage parade - Mrs. Mary Bair, Mr[s]. W. Albert Wood, and Mrs. R.S. [i.e., Richard Coke] Burleson (LOC)

Because of them, WE are identifiable by who we are and not just who we married! It's ok for us to be a Miss, Mrs, or Ms.

Suffragettes at capitol: Mrs. [Russell] McLennan, Mrs. Aletha Taft, Louise Bridges, Mrs. [Richard Coke] Burleson, Alberta Hill, F. Ragsdale (LOC)

They were wives and mothers

Suffrage news girls - Liz Freeman (LOC)

Some faces of great women!

Peanut Buttered Fish?

Organic Coconut Peanut Butter 26 oz. photo
I know, it sounds too weird! But it is GOOD. Take mild white fish and bake it, steam it, poach it...make no difference. Take anywhere from 1/4 of a cup of the Coconut Peanut Butter and warm it in the microwave with a bit of cayanne or hot sauce or hot oil (depending on how hot you like it). Plate your fish and pour your warmed, spiced peanut butter sauce over it. We didn't salt or pepper the fish while cooking.

Thought about adding coconut but didn't have any.  Maybe next time..although it did taste rather perfect.

I need to table this

Woodbridge Home Designs 759 Series 5 Piece Pub Dining Room Set - 759 Pub Dining Series
FREE IN-HOME DELIVERY & SETUP

Woodbridge Home Designs 759 Series 5 Piece Pub Dining Room Set - 759 Pub Dining Series






Now that I have my new wheelchair that goes up and down, this might be an option for us. We like darker woods. And the pricing is way better than the game table that I got before we got married (and DH hates)! 


OH...I found this while strolling through Dining Rooms Direct. Well, with all the talk in the blogging world, I had to check it out. And then, they wanted to be talked about. Win, Win. 


Seriously, I had to quit my investigation... so many, MANY sets of dinning room sets! Styles! Light wood, dark wood, glass! The mind swirls! I have to also think about getting my wheels under one which most folks don't have to think about. 

If you don't have to be quite so picky, but still are choosy, this might be a good place to start...or finish. Check Dining Rooms Direct out yourself! 

I want to be like this turtle if you ever flip out!


I love my niece, Lisa, for sharing this with me!

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Hear Ye, Hear Ye

LISTEN





Did you get it?

We've come a long way baby!

I read this article in the New York Times by Gail Collins the other day about the how the 90th anniversary of women getting the right to vote. 

A lot of the history I knew but not this part:

"The women and their allies knew they had a one-vote margin of support in the House. Then the speaker, whom they had counted on as a “yes,” changed his mind.

(I love this moment. Women’s suffrage is tied to the railroad track and the train is bearing down fast when suddenly. ...)
Suddenly, Harry Burn, the youngest member of the House, a 24-year-old “no” vote from East Tennessee, got up and announced that he had received a letter from his mother telling him to “be a good boy and help Mrs. Catt.”
“I know that a mother’s advice is always the safest for a boy to follow,” Burn said, switching sides."
Did you smile? I did with a bit of a lump in my throat. 

Then I thought of my 91 year old mom. I had to call her. Did she realize she was a year older that this historical change?  Had she ever talked to her parents about this bit of history? They were from Mississippi. Where did they stand on the issue? (Her father was 41; her mother, 26!)

"Oh," she said, "they were very progressive! They were very much in favor of women having the right to vote!"

I wish we could have talked longer but she was trying to get my husband on the road home. But we have an appointment to discuss it further.

So, celebrate Women's Suffrage Day n August 26. 

Hold it in your mind and heart in November. We have the vote! Use it! Celebrate it! Think of all those women had to go through to get us this right! It doesn't matter, it should not matter, that this is not a presidential election year. It is an important year for all women to show their appreciation for all the things the women who proceeded us were willing to go through to give us this privilege, this right!

So, ladies, think hard, listen hard, make some decisions, and VOTE!  And don't forget to encourage other women to do the same, help other women to do the same even if it's a ride to the polls! 

Don't forget, We've come a long way baby! 

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

The Historian

The Historian

The Historian


Why did I ever want to win this book? It's abridged for heaven's sake! You know how I feel about abridged books! But enter and I! Won it too! 

What's the difference between the unabridged and abridged versions? 26 hours vs 11.5 hours. That's a lot of cutting!  (I didn't really feel it except maybe just at the end. Otherwise, it moved along quite nicely for me.)

Did the fact that Hachette Book Group put it out have anything to do with it? Probably, the Group has put out so many books in both written and audible formats that I have enjoyed.

The cover? You gotta admit it is a cool cover. And did you notice all the narrators?! (They were, as Tony the Tiger would say, grrrrrrrate!)

Hachette summarized the story this way:

Breathtakingly suspenseful and beautifully written, THE HISTORIAN is the story of a young woman plunged into a labyrinth where the secrets of her family's past connect to an inconceivable evil: the dark fifteenth-century reign of Vlad the Impaler and a time-defying pact that may have kept his awful work alive through the ages. The search for the truth becomes an adventure of monumental proportions, taking us from monasteries and dusty libraries to the capitals of Eastern Europe-in a feat of storytelling so rich, so hypnotic, so exciting that it has enthralled listeners around the world.


I can't top that summation...it was all that was promised!  

Now I have to make a wee confession:  while I thought I would find this a good story, I did not expect to really enjoy it as much as I did! It is not a genre that I typically read but some of my best friends (book bloggers I trust) were really excited about it. Nosey me, just had to find out stirred them up! I was not disappointed! Maybe you should get nosey too.

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Pirates in the Family (via the Southards)

Yea! real pirates in the family! I love it! Unfortantly, I can only claim them through my brother-in-law, Larry. The following is the tale:
From:  "Pirate Utopias:  Moorish Corsairs & European Renegadoes", Author:  Peter Lamborn Wilson; 2nd Revised Edition, Autonomedia, Brooklyn, NY; 1995, 2003.
"Anthony Jansen van Salee (or van Faes)41 (Note 41: Presumably Anthony had lived for some time in both Sale' and Fez) was born in Sale', Morocco, the son of Jan Janz a.k.a. Murad Rais [a.k.a. Jan Janszoon van Haarlem van Salee], the amazing Dutch renegado who raided Iceland and Ireland and served as Grand Admiral of the Corsair Republic of Sale'.  Murad Rais had a Dutch wife and family, but also married an unnamed "Moorish princess" or "Spanish girl" after his apostasy.  Anthony was clearly Murad's Moroccan child, since he was later called a "mulatto" in the New World.  Anthony arrived in the Dutch colony of New Amsterdam on Manhattan Island a few years before 1638, when his name first appears in the records.
"Anthony was born sometime in the decade following 1600 (since he was said to be "about seventy" in 1669, and died in 1676).  Murad Rais must therefore have visited or even settled in Sale' before 1610 at the latest.  Castries's "Sources inedites de l'histoire du Maroc" actually mentions Anthony's presence in Sale' in 1623/4, by which time he would've been a young man.  Therefore he would have been around 30 years old when he arrived in Manhattan; perhaps a few years older.
"By 1638 Anthony had already purchased a small farm in Manhattan and married Grietse [Grietje] Reyniers, a former barmaid from Amsterdam [or Germany], a boistrous and quarrelsome woman.  Anthony himself must have been rather daunting, not so much for his complexion but because he "was a man of great vigor...prodigious stature and strength" (even his descendants were said to be giants who performed feats of strength) and obviously quick-tempered.  His manner was piratical, in fact.
"The newlywed couple burst into New Amsterdam legal records with a rambunctious bang.  In the years 1638/9 they were involved in fifteen of the 93 cases heard by the Courts, over 10% of the crime-rate.  The Dutch of old Manhattan (about 2000 of them) devoted a huge amount of time to quarreling in Court, but the Jansens stand out even in such unruly company.  Anthony's enemies called him a rascal and horned beast, and he was generally known as the Troublesome Turk (i.e., Moslem).
"The Jansen van Salees made their legal debut in a case involving an unpaid debt to Domine [Preacher] Bogardus, concerning which Grietse accused the Domine of lying, and Anthony was quoted as saying, "If the Domine will have his money at once, then I had rather lose my head than pay him in this wise, and if he insist on the money, it will yet cause bloodshed."
[After some research, it appears that Anthony's complaint may have been that because he was a Muslim, he did not accept the community-borne obligation to provide an income for the Protestant preacher]
"Lysbert Dircks, a midwife called as a character witness, testified that she had assisted Grietse at her recent confinement.  After the birth, Grietse asked Lysbert whether the baby resembled one Andries Hudden (a Council member, one of the gentry) or Anthony, her husband.  The midwife replied dryly, "If you do not know who is the father, how should I know?  However the child is somewhat brown."
"The Jansens lost the case and were soon in trouble again.  Anthony for slander and Grietse for mooning the Fleet.  Sailors of the Fleet had called out from shipboard to Grietse on shore:  "Whore, whore, two-pound butter whore!" -- whereupon "she lifted up her petticoat and turning to the crew pointed to her behind," or slapped her backside and shouted, "Blaes my daer achterin".  To round off this portrait of Mrs. Jansen, other witnesses quoted her as saying (on another occasion), "I have long been the whore of the nobility; from now on I shall be the whore of the rabble!"  The Jansens lost the case.
"More cases followed:  Anthony's hog killed someone's dog.  Debts went unpaid.  A pistol was waved about.  Firewood was stolen.  Drunkenness.  Slander.  More debt.  Unsavory stories were told of Grietse's tavern-maid days in Old Amsterdam.  In New Amsterdam "she pulled the shirts of some sailors out of their breaches and in her house measured the male members of three sailors on a broomstick."  Finally it was too much for even the litigious colonials, and the Jansen menage (now including several little girls) was exiled from Manhattan by order of the Court.
"By today's standards they didn't go far -- just to Brooklyn.  But at the time Brooklyn scarcely existed, and they were the first non-Indian settlers in the Gravesend/New Utrecht section of the future city.  Anthony also owned land on Coney Island.  He bought all the land from the Indians.43 His estates were known as Turk's Plantation.  (Note 43:  According to the tribal maps of New York City in "Native New Yorkers" by Evan T. Pritchard (San Francisco, 2002), the area of Brooklyn where the Jansens settled was then occupied by the Canarsies, the Makeop, the Mocung and the Mannahaning.)
"After a few years Anthony began showing his face in Manhattan again, and soon acquired property there as well.  His farm prospered.  Some of his family (eventually consisting of four grown and married daughters with children) settled in Brooklyn, some in Manhattan, and Anthony maintained his interests in both places.  The fiery couple, the Turk and the barmaid, seem to have mellowed somewhat during their years of rustification, and gave up some of their more egregiously piratical mannerisms.  Slowly, they became gentry.
"Perhaps not quite respectable gentry, however.  Anthony doesn't disappear from Court records, although now most of the disputes concern property boundaries in Brooklyn.  Anthony was kept busy sailing back and forth to Court in Manhattan, but now he sometimes won his lawsuits and cases.
"Around 1669 Grietse died at Gravesend, and old Anthony remarried, a Manhattan widow named Metje Grevanraet.  Anthony moved with her into a Manhattan house on Bridge Street (to be seen depicted in "Iconography of Manhattan Island," a delightful collection of old maps and cityscapes.)  By this time of course New Amsterdam had fallen to the English and become New York.
"Metje may have been a Quaker; certainly she caused Anthony to be fined by the Court (the sum of one beaver) for harboring an English Quaker overnight at their house on Bridge St. (which was also at times run as an inn).
"'April 16, 1674.  Fragment of an affadavit setting forth that Samuel Forman of Oyster Bay came to the city where he lodged at the house of Anthony Jansen from Salee, and, by inspiration of Christ Jesus, intended to repair to the [Dutch] church during divine service and exclaim:  "O cry wrath shall I cry, all flesh is grass, grass is the flower of the field, the flower falls and the grass withers but the word of God Obeids [abides] forever." -- Calendar of Historical Manuscripts in the Office of the Secretary of State (Albany), XXIII/2/331'"
"This case raises the question of Anthony Jansen's religion.  He and his first wife Grietse were not known for piety and churchliness; it seems that Anthony was assumed to be a Moslem, a "Turk".  Since he had grown up in Morocco this would appear likely enough.  Later in his life he apparently conformed to the Dutch Church, and even petitioned (unsuccessfully) for a minister to be sent out to Gravesend.  But in his youth Anthony might have been influenced by sufism, and certainly by the rough spirit of toleration and radicalism amongst the Renegadoes.  He and his second wife might well have entertained Quakerish notions.  In this context it's interesting to note that Jansen's nearest neighbors in Brooklyn after 1643 consisted of a small colony of English Anabaptists led by the eccentric Lady Deborah Moody, expelled from Plymouth Bay Colony for heresy.  Lady Moody was a friend of Governor Stuyvesant, and Jansen was on good terms with her.
"Anthony brought a few precious items with him from Morocco:  an engraved brass tray and "tea kettle", and a copy of the Koran.  He was illiterate in Dutch and English; he signed depositions and deeds with his "mark":  [depicted on page 211 is an Arabic-looking "A" and diagonally slanted "I", stating "This is the mark made by the own hand of Anthoni Jansen van Fes".
"But he may have been literate in Arabic.  This Koran -- perhaps the first in the New World -- was passed down in the Van Sicklen and Gulick families, descended from Jansen, till in about 1886 it was sold to one Richard M. Johnson "for a trifling sum".  (Johnson may himself have been a descendent of Jansen's as well, since the family had changed their name to this English spelling.)  Johnson later sold it to an old Jewish dealer in Trenton known as "Jerusalem".  Johnson had no idea what the book was, but Jerusalem recognized it and offered $50 for it.  Johnson received only $25 however, because the dealer died before making the second payment.  At this point the Koran disappears from view and is lost to history.
"Anthony Jansen van Salee lived out his last years in Bridge St. and died in March, 1676.  His second wife survived him by 10 years, and lived in the house till her death."

PARTY TIME!!!

The 11th was my birthday and it was made lovely with hugs and chocolates from DH.  The 14th was our  anniversary. Charlie got several kitchen toys...some of which he use to make us a lovely meal over several hours (can't do that restaurant!). The first course was french toast but not the normal way. It was stuffed with a chopped ripe olive cream cheese mix. and it was light and lovely. After a bit of TV, he made the loveliest fish accompanied by bright green broccoli! Later and lastly, slivers of fresh strawberries in honey Greek yogurt! Maybe it was the spacing...all I know is that each course was just as wonderful as the last and the totality was brilliant and such a loving mean my honey made for me!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Think of a Number

Think of a Number: A Novel
I was going to wait and then I had Audible.com credits and then I could not wait! I wanted it! I got it!

You guys know I don't get abridged books because it be like reading the cliff notes of a book.

George Newburn read it to me (I'll let him read to me any time!).

Victims are asked to think of a number. If the number is the same as enclosed, send a check to an address. Later the recipient is asked to think of another number and then check the mail to see if the sender has once more written down the same number. Soon after the second guess, we have a victim of murder. Our retired cop gets involved when a nervous school mate of old ends up as the first victim. The x-cop can't get away from the case...quilt or the the need to solve the mystery? Thus the story continues. Can the mastermind continue to out wit the cop and cops (you)?

The clues are there. See if you can get there first! It's great fun!

9 Dragons

Nine Dragons (An Unabridged Production)[9-CD Set]; (Harry Bosch Series #15)

Read well by Len Carion, unabridged (of course)! Won by Me!

Harry is a cop. A Chinese shopkeeper has been murdered. Was it a member of the Tong or someone else? How is this going to involved his daughter and her mother in China? Is there a leak in the cop house? Who can Harry  trust? The answers will come as Harry 'globe trots'! The action and pace are fast and furious! 'Just the kind of book I like!

O, this is another of Hachette Audio books.. I like what they do!

The Scarecrow

The Scarecrow

This was one of my winnings thanks to the contest blogger and Hachette Audio.

The narrator, Peter Giles, did a grand job!

This is the story of Jack McEvoy, a damn good reporter who has been made redundant.  What's more, he is supposed to train his replacement on the crime desk. Will he exit gently? No, or we couldn't have a story about the way newspapers work, or how our Jack solves the mystery of who done it if the confessed 16 year old did not comment the murder? How many people will die before his last day at the paper? Will he even be able to write the story or will they take it away from him? Will he be retained at the paper after all? How many murderers do we have? And how do him or them seem to always be ahead of Jack?

I'm not going to tell you! Read or listen to it yourself! It's good! Fast! I liked it (so did DH)!

This is unabridged. I can't imagine how much action you would miss in an abridged version.

Thursday Thunks

The TT questions are brought to you by Bud, the color of Sarah Palin's bible and the number 333.
1. What radio personality bothers you the most?  Rush

2. If abandoned alone in the wilderness, would you survive? No...wimpy!

3. If a sexy person was pursuing you, but you knew she was married, And neither her S/O or yours would never know, might you to the deed?  No, I'm not into 'she'.

4. Do you like to pursue or be pursued?  A bit of both

5. Use three words to describe yourself.  Not quite centered.

6. If Berleen was on a camping trip, do you thing she’d attract grizzlies? No, teddy bears

7. Do you think more about the past, present or future? None has dominance

8. If your house was on fire, what would be the first thing, other than family or pets, that you grabbed? My new blue Pride wheelchair

9. Was your mom a cheerleader?  No, yes...sometimes...you know, the way moms are!

10. Was your dad a jock? No, doctor...but I was a golf orphan

11. Bud’s been gone a while. Do you think he will return or shut down that Googled Warned blog?  Haven't the foggiest

12. What’s your favorite junk food?  CHOCOLATE!

13. Do you believe in reincarnation?  Yes

Are we ever going to catch up?

My 91 yo mom and I have discussed this and neither of us can understand it! It's 2010! We are fighting and losing solders that we desperately need. Yet we are one of the few countries in the 'free world' that do not think that men and women of commitment to our country, their country, should be allowed or remain in the army if they are homosexual?! Is there anyone today that has not met and/or become friends with someone who is gay? Does it make a difference? Maybe that bible school song, 'red or yellow, black or white, they are precious in this site, Jesus loves the children of the world" should also include homosexuals! 

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Is he CRAZY or am I

I mean really!? A person who claims to be a good American! This country that was founded on religious freedom...to believe or not and the ability to practice each in his/her own way! This man wants restrict the building of a Mosque! He must have a very small list of friends and acquaintances! I'm glad mine is larger as they sometimes invite me to theirs and talk about what everything is all about.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Who stays and who goes?

Am I the only one who periodically adds and subtracts who shows up on their blog? I just thought I'd ask. I've found that I must because some I no longer follow so how can I honestly leave them up.

I've also decided that while I am still trying to stay away from entering a lot of contests (so addicting), I will not be putting buttons on my blog if it is not a blog I like and follow regularly. (You know I have to keep up on what's new!)

What's your story?

What got you started tracing your family history? This was the question Ancestry.com asked in FaceBook.

After my mom, I will be the oldest of the "Vaughan Family" she and my dad started. So while she is still around, while I am still around, I want something to pass on to the kids of the family who someday might want to see the branches and leaves of the tree and even share it with others to come.

Are other benefits? (She asks herself?)

Oh yes! If I have searched some of this correctly, I have found some historical people I have read about in some of the historical books I have read...makes the reading even more fun.

And the pictures other people have found of some of our relations are great! Stories, too! I've even gotten to meet a couple of them who have help me in my searches. Unlike the kids we just had each other, Aunt Ruby and Granddaddy. I was really too young to remember my mom's dad. I never met either of my grandmothers.  The kids, that generation after my sisters and I, do have each other as do their kids...so many the same ages. It's great they will have stories to share as well as time. I just hope their enjoy this tree with pictures and stories as well as I have the research.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

My big sister, Patsy


Wasn't she beautiful? The first picture was when she was about 10. The second picture was in the early sixties. I wish one of these pictures was in color because she had the most amazing blue eyes. No, not corn flower blue. More the color of an aquamarine. My four beautiful nieces inherited her eyes. She was first chair in the San Antonio Youth Symphony (violin). She exercised horse for the Pentathlon Team from Fort Sam Houston (giving her mother several heart stopping moments). I remember my mom telling me a story about a time they were watching the team as they took a course of hair raising jumps. At one point she ask her 5'2" daughter in a fairly calm voice, "You do follow this course when you are exercising the horses?" Her daughter answered: "Of course!" I don't know if my mother still has it, but she used to have a pastille drawing she did that I particularly liked. She would have made the National Honor Society had she and a girl friend not be caught skipping school one day.

As we were both fire signs, you can just imagine the sparks that flew between us! Damn good thing our mother is a water sign with all the fires she had to put out! While I loved and admired her always, I was sorry she died without our reconciliation. And without seeing the wonderful women her daughters have become!  Or met her grand and great grand children.

GIVEAWAY AND BLOG TOUR: Wicked Intentions by Elizabeth Hoyt

O, not mine! Book Hound's is doing it. I just want to win this book! BH said if I blogged about it, I could get extra credit. I do want this book and my book budget is on lockdown. If you have read the reviews on this book or you like Elizabeth Holt, you, too, will want to read it. If you don't believe me, get on your bike and check it out for yourself!

I just wanted to say one more thing,  Do read the review, it's quite good. This is a new blog site for me but it looks so good, I am now a follower after a bit of a wander and read.  (Is that more than 1 thing? Never mind...I'm like that don't cha know.)

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Reenie Hanlin: Changes....

Reenie Hanlin: Changes....: "I feel crazed lately. More crazed than my 'normal' crazed. We are in the midst of negotiations on a farm. Our dream farm. Meanwhile I am try..."

OK, translation: She is DESTASHING! Wants to get rid of YARN!!! You know we fiber folks should help her out! These are hand spun. Look and see!

Friday, August 6, 2010

High horse time

I don't often get on it but some times, I just have to do it! They (media) say we can't talk about it, but I just don't understand why we can't. My friends agree with me (some times) and disagree with me (some times). But that's what makes us friends. Our love for each other enables us to hear each other even when in conflict. We challenge each other's thinking.

I have friends who do not believe in abortion. I understand their position and respect their position. I, for various reasons, disagree and they understand my reasons and still accept me. 

I especially believe it in cases of rape, incest, and/or where the life of the mother is endangered.  In the first 2, I really feel it is punishing a girl/woman for something they could not control. In the last, well, I've been there and it was awful! My doctor called me to talk to me and my husband. She had talked with my other doctors (4) before we arrived to tell us that I who was told she was sterile was pregnant . It was unanimous...no way could/should I carry the pregnancy. With C. being Scottish, it upped the odds of a mother born with spina bifida having a child with the same birth defect from 50% to 75% and that didn't begin to cover other problems the baby might have as I was past my mid 50s. And that was only if I lived. C doesn't even understand little kids any less babies. I am very careful about choosing doctors and therefore respect their opinions. C and I talked long and hard before I made my decision. Because of all the abdominal surgeries I had had, it couldn't be done the easy way. It would be major surgery. So I made the other hard decision. I could never go through this again. While doing the DNC, the doctor would also tie my tubes. 

Who was there to visit me after the surgery while I dealt with a major stitch infection but a friend who disagrees with me but loved me enough to accept my decision. 

So I get sort of bent out of shape when people running for office want to take us back to the way women were treated in the 50s. The one thing I really got from my 12th grade government teacher was a definition of freedom...it's the ability to swing as far and wide as you want without bumping into those of someone else.

I feel better having gotten that out of my system. PLEASE feel free to disagree with me! I will love you anyway! 

Monday, August 2, 2010

GET READY FOR IT!!!

DH helped me do a bunch of scans today of pictures of my mom when she was in school and I am going to share them as soon as I get them cropped and turned right way up. She is 91 and sharp as a tack! hey way...I think I can get one out early! BRB! Whahoo! I did it! This is a modern picture. She is holding an afghan I crocheted for her using black, white, grey, and a blend of the colors and different textures for each rounding. I was so glad she liked it!

This is my mom


Jewell R Campbell
Originally uploaded by spvaughan

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Coconut Peanut Butter!

I like Tropical Traditions Coconut Peanut Butter and love Tropical Traditions! I got this a bit ago on a very warm (TEXAS) day. As it had set on the front porch a while, I had lots of time to keep rotating it to mix together the two ingredients. 

I waited until thoroughly cool and blended and tried it on some bread. I found it lots better than the organic butters I have tried in the past.

I delayed this posting until we (DH and I) had a chance to do some experimenting. First one failed: cooked chicken strips and added peanut butter at the end of cooking...split and was ucky. Second one worked: cook chicken strips alone. Warm some of the peanut butter in the microwave on medium until  more than warm. Serve over chicken strips and top with some chopped green onion. (I might have added some minced peanuts while heating the mix but we didn't have any...no extra coconut either). Third one worked:  cooked some Chinese noodles. Added finely minced onion to the butter as it is warmed. Toss with noodles and, wala, I had some quick dan dan type noodles...liked it best cold.

Tropical Traditions has lots of recipes for you like together Sweet Potato Coconut Peanut Butter Soup. I ask you, how good does that sound?? (They have tons of recipes for all their products if you don't want to invent on your own!)

Now here's the question...to add spices or to try some of Tropical Traditions other peanut butters?  I mean, look at the choices!!! I see classic (goes with everything), spicey Southwestern (cayenne maybe or Capote), vanilla cranberry (slerp), dark chocolate (love!),  cinnamon current (IE, raisin-don't even need raisin bread), onion parsley (maybe on potatoes?), Valencia (maybe orange) creamy and chunky, hickory smoked (what can i do with this!?), Thai ginger red pepper. This is like peanut butter heaven! Do you think they would let me try all of them...maybe like just an ounce of each?

Organic Peanut Butter Set

100% Pure Valencia Peanuts!

Many peanut butters on the market today (including organic peanut butters) are a mixture of Valencia peanuts and other peanut varieties, often imported from outside the United States. Our Organic Peanut Butter, however, is made from 100% pure Valencia peanuts grown organically by family farmers in New Mexico and Texas. Grown in the dry climate of the southwestern United States, these peanut butters are certified organic and free from aflatoxins.


And the nuts are from New Mexico and TEXAS!!!! I mean, you gotta support your country and STATE.!  Everyone say 'YEA TEXAS'!

Saturday, July 31, 2010

FoldTuck Roaster

It has been a long time since I entered a giveaway for anything other than a book..and few of those. But I saw the FoldTuk Roaster a long time ago and have been so curious about it. I just could not resist! If you are wondering about this product, go to visit The Not So Blog and read her review. If you then find yourself as curious as I, ENTER! 
Would it be rude to hope if you enter, I still win? I'll go back to my books now.